In resent weeks I’ve noticed a strange trend on Twitter, I call it “ghost following”. It involves people following someone then unfollowing them straight away. Since twitter notify you about new followers but not unfollowers, you check out their profile and follow them.
This is strange for a number of reasons. Firstly I can’t understand why someone would want to do that. So you have a huge follower to followed ratio… So what? What does it matter? (maybe someone can use the comments to explain this to me)
The second thing I can’t understand about this is that it works! To me twitter is a cross between a big chat room and a information source, if I’m interested in what someone has to say I’ll follow them, if I’m not I won’t, and more importantly thats how I view what others. So if you follow me I assume it’s because your interested in what I’ve got to say, So when I next get time to look at your twitter feed, I see if I’m interested in what you have to say, but just because your interested in me doesn’t mean I’m going to be interested in you.
Just as everyone has a different type of partner they fancy, people have different interests just because your interests aren’t my interests, doesn’t mean that the stuff you have to say is worthless, just that it doesn’t directly interest me.
So don’t be offended if you follow me and I don’t follow you back, we just have different interests.
The same goes for re-tweeting. Unless you have something like TweetDeck running, re-tweeting involves a lot of cutting and pasting, and is a pain to do, so I don’t expect you to ever re-tweet something I post, if and when people do, that great and I try to thank them (it is after all a pain to do so), but in my eyes the only reason to do so is if you think there tweet is something you wish you had said.
That makes the tendency that people seam to have of adding “Please RT” to the end of every message at best laughably and worst, 9 Characters wasted. They may as well add “Please click” to every link, I also wonder if these people go around saying reminding there friends to breath, eat, drink and go to the toilet. Let me make this clear, if I want to re-tweet something, I’ll re-tweet it, I don’t need you to tell me to do so.
So if I don’t follow you back, don’t be offend, if I don’t re-tweet something of yours, don’t be offended, and I won’t be offended if you don’t re-tweet my stuff or follow me.